Transmutation is the process of changing a "lower" form of energy into a "higher" form.
The emotion of sex contains the secret of creative ability. When harnessed, and redirected along other lines, this motivating force maintains all of its attributes of keenness of imagination, courage, etc., which may be used as powerful creative forces in literature, art, or in any other profession or calling, including, of course, the accumulation of riches. (Napoleon Hill - Think & Grow Rich)
Nature rewards the “Sexed”.
Fortunate, indeed, is the person who has discovered how to give sex emotion an outlet through some form of creative effort, for she/he has, by that discovery, lifted herself/himself to the status of a genius.
(Napoleon Hill - Think & Grow Rich).
Sex is Nature’s creative agenda. Nature has designed sexual life forms to be rewarded for furthering Nature’s agenda of creating more life with pleasure, health, and satisfaction. In essence, if you further Life, you get more Life.
In sexual transmutation we're taking the impulse to procreate and using it to create in other ways. Nature or life or the universe does not care how we create, but insists that we do. Artists and entrepreneurs poetically refer making their work as “giving birth” because it gives an intrinsic reward which we call “satisfaction” (more energy).
By transmuting sexual energy you’re basically telling the Universe, “Hey I’m not going to make a child this time, but trust me I’m going to spend it well.” And if you’re a good investment, Nature will give you more energy to spend.
Energy = Feeling
When we talk about “energy” in a subjective sense, we really mean that we feel something.
Sex energy, therefore, is any feeling we associate with sex. Arousal, pleasure, and anticipation are the big ones.
In Sex Transmutation we convert the feelings of sex into other usable feelings. This means being willing to feel a lot, and feel in different ways.
Feelings come in 3 different forms:
When we have a feeling our body, our reptilian brain is registering that energy as sensation.
When someone “hurts our feelings”, our paleomammalian brain (limbic system) is registering that energy as emotion.
When we have a feeling that we need to do something, our neocortex is registering that energy as intuition.
Sensation, emotion, and intuition are three forms in which we as incarnate beings perceive energy. Though the language varies, it’s a fairly universal concept found in many different models including Chinese medicine, ayurveda, western alchemy,.
Transmutation is the process of changing a “lower” form of energy into a “higher” form.
We start with sensation because it’s the most concrete and densest form of energy. As opposed to emotion or intuition, sensation is the only form of energy that can be located in your physical body.
We all know of an individual beaming with creative energy who seems unable to materialize his/her intentions. Chances are that person’s energy stays too volatile and abstract, therefore has trouble grounding in reality. (Such a person can benefit a lot from simple having sex to return to his/her body.)
Sex has a large potential for a high amount of pleasurable sensation and therefore is one of the best places to collect “raw energy.”
In practicing sexual transmutation, our only “goal” is to cultivate as much sensation as possible. This means not being attached to results and focusing keen attention on what allows us to feel more. We must become curious about sensation and see how we can maximize pleasure.
Unpotentiated sensation will corrupt if not used for creation.
The major reason why the majority of men who succeed do not begin to do so before the age of forty to fifty, is their tendency to dissipate their energies through over indulgence in physical expression of the emotion of sex. The majority of men never learn that the urge of sex has other possibilities, which far transcend in importance, that of mere physical expression.
Our bodies are limited in space (or by space?), and like any spatial container, they have a limit. As we fill our bodies with sensation we must stay conscious of our limit one of the following will happen:
We discharge (climax, cry, or create drama) – Many forms of discharge can be healthy and satisfying when intentional. But if you find yourself manifesting drama, ask yourself “Am I self-sabotaging what I really want because the sensation is too high?”
We numb out (sensory/substance indulgence, lose consciousness) – Overeating, oversleeping, overdrinking, over-tv-watching, and over-anything can typically be blamed on the person feeling too much. If you get to the point of consuming something without consciously feeling pleasure, then by definition you are numbing out.
We control (shame, mechanical actions) – This often manifests as going after things that we think we should do rather than want to do. Controlling actions are typically rooted in shame. We disapprove of feelings (energy) in ourselves and others in order to cut off the flow. If you ever have thoughts starting with “You’re too…” or discount your desires, then you may be numbing out.
A major skill within sex transmutation is grounding, or stabilizing the energy in your body. Grounding allows one handle more sensation (i.e. feel more in your body without climaxing).
(Grounding is its own skill which perhaps needs its own article. If you have no idea “how to be stable” try this: pay attention to gravity. Keep paying attention till it’s hard to have frantic thoughts.)
So we’ve cultivated sensation and are holding in it our bodies. How do we actually transmute?
Love is the keystone of transmutation.
Highly sexed people always have a plentiful supply of magnetism. Through cultivation and understanding, this vital force may be drawn upon and used to great advantage in the relationships between people.
By way of physical anatomy, the heart lives right between the sex organs and the brain. (And the limbic system is conveniently in between the reptilian brain and the neocortex). For energy to flow from Body to Mind it must pass through Heart.
An “open” heart means being willing to feel the emotion of love.
Everyone knows that sex allowing love is very different than sex blocking love. I phrase it that way, because one does not need to be in love, in fact the love I refer to isn’t as much romantic as universal.
For someone with a closed heart, the energy doesn’t go beyond the body and therefore will force the person to discharge, numb, or control. If you’ve ever had sex with closed heart (be honest) you may have noticed an empty or resentful feeling followed. This is because the energy couldn’t move and became rancid.
For someone with an open heart, eros (lust) will naturally flow into agape(love of all things). When sensation reaches its peak, the natural progression is to “flow up” or become less dense. If you’ve ever had sex with an “open heart” you may have noticed afterwards you saw the world more poetically, were more attentive of ideas and creative associations, and appreciative of everything the way it is – the acceptance and appreciation of all things is exactly the love I’m talking about.
Love is the keystone that allows energy to expand.
Transmutation cannot be forced. One cannot command their sexual parts to give them a million dollar idea. One can only feel pleasure and be open to possibility. From there intentions materialize as effortlessly as water evaporating.
Transmuted energy can feed any pursuit.
So we can feel a lot of pleasure, hold it, and love it into creativity.
Well that’s completely up to you.
Simply being charged up in this way has it’s benefits.
When transmuting sexual energy in this way, ideas come in floods.
And sex becomes better. A lot better. We learn to connect to energy beyond just mechanical stimulation. Sex becomes a more holistic experience in the sense that it really encompasses the whole of you: body, heart, and mind.
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